The Warning Signs You're Raising a Pervert | Part 1/2 and how to stop it
Are we raising perverts? Well...maybe. Establishing what are normal and acceptable sexual behaviors is not easy to do. Therapists, psychologists, and psychiatrists have been helping adults to navigate their sexual desires and have heard from clients a wide variety of sexual behaviors that may be described as abnormal and unacceptable. Does this mean that everybody is a pervert? And if so, are we raising perverts?
How do we prevent our kid from being labeled a pervert? In this video, I talk about 4 common behaviors that if an individual were to do, they would be labeled a pervert. These include staring, sending dick pics, constantly talking about sex, and upskirting. Acknowledging as parents that we need to have more conversations about these behaviors with our children. Explaining to them why these behaviors are unacceptable and inappropriate to do may be what is lacking in sex education. Because it is difficult within the psych community to define what are normal and acceptable behaviors, the mental disorder approach of causing harmful dysfunction has been applied to whether a sexual behavior is abnormal and unacceptable and discussed in this video.
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References & Mentions in the video:
Carr, S. and Spandler, H. (2019, Feb 11). Hidden from history? A brief modern history of the psychiatric "treatment" of lesbian and bisexual women in England. The Lancet, 6(4), P289-290. https://www.thelancet.com/journals/la...
McNally RJ. On Wakefield's harmful dysfunction analysis of mental disorder. Behav Res Ther. 2001 Mar;39(3):309-14. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/11227...
Bingham, R. and Banner, N. (August, 2014). The definition of mental disorder: evolving but dysfunctional? Journal of Medical Ethics, 40(8), 537-542. https://www.jstor.org/stable/43283063
Esther Perel - https://www.estherperel.com/
Q&A with Esther Perel - Goop Magazine (2022, November 14)
https://goop.com/wellness/sexual-heal...
BBC Article: Upskirting Now a Crime After a Woman's Campaign https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-47902522
Jayneen Sander's Books on her website:
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Making a Baby by Rachel Greener https://amzn.to/3vX9l0B
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You-ology Puberty Guide for EVERY body by Trish Hutchison, MD & Kathryn Lowe, MD https://amzn.to/3vWjue1
Sex is a Funny Word: A Book about Bodies, Feelings and You by Cory Silverberg https://amzn.to/37YfKk8
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