How to be socially magnetic | Ben Chai Podcast | Ep 01
Ben Chai Podcast Episode 1
"How to be socially magnetic"
Unlock the secrets of Social Magnetism and Charisma with our comprehensive guide! Discover how to boost your confidence, build stronger relationships, and embrace personal development for a magnetic personality. Learn from real-life stories of overcoming challenges and the power of persistence. Whether you're naturally charismatic or looking to enhance your social skills, our tips and strategies will guide you on a journey of continuous learning and self-improvement. Perfect for anyone interested in personal growth, building confidence, and mastering the art of attraction. Subscribe and transform your social presence today!
Timestamps
01:27 Whats the difference between charisma and social magnetism?
2:15 Why did you write a book about social magnetism?
3:28 Is there a ceiling ?
5:58 what is real confidence and how to build it?
12:34 Preparing to overcome failure
16:20 - how to connect with strangers
20:21 - is social magnetism a performance?
24:13 - should you focus on changing your mood to get better response from others?
25:55 - teasing in playful way can get positive results if done right.
27:00 - What was you like before?
29:14 - when I became a christian
33:56 - was there any books that helped you become socially magnetic
35:32 - The dark side of social magnetism
38:35 - How to identify a crocodile
41:49 - should you give people enough rope to hang themselves?
46:40 - get the qualified people to work with you and not people just because they are friends or family
49:42 - do you trust your friends?
51:17 - social magnetism and seduction?
55:51 - only a few people have game so it’s easy to standout when it comes to pickup
59:30 - manufacturing fake interactions will hurt you in long run!
1:03:10 - Book The Game - To win the game you had to leave the game
1:08:45 - BODY LANGUAGE has nothing to do with being socially magnetic?
1:09:59 - Avoid Negative Social Magnetism
1:12:06 - Why are you called the doctor who of business ?
1:14:35 - Provide value without looking for anything in return vs looking for a benefit?
1:16:13 - What is your morning routine? Can lack of life balance effect your social magnetism?
1:19:52 - work life balance is imbalanced
1:22:50 - Introvert vs extrovert - are these labels excuses to not interact
1:26:48 - Peoples personalities are not fixed
1:31:17 - Your network effects your net-worth - Social Magnetism in the business world
1:34:37 - changes you have to make in order to get the best interactions
1:37:21 - build you network while your in your 9-5
1:38:15 - Family and social magnetism
1:44:59 - I didn’t speak to parents for a decade - Sometimes family are crocodiles
1:47:17 - Final thoughts
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