How Comparison Makes You Miserable...

Опубликовано: 15 Декабрь 2020
на канале: Daniel Titchener

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Essentially, I'm a guy who posts videos to the internet and lives with his mum. So, I've been prone to my fair share of "comparison hangovers" - but I'm curious about how our comparisons with others influence our decisions, especially this time of year.

This is not a video telling you how to spend your holidays. What matters to you is something only you can decide, so don't let anyone else tell you otherwise.

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The Paradox of Choice, Barry Schwartz - https://geni.us/tBs27L
Make Time, Jack Knapp & John Zeratsky - https://geni.us/OtO7

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⏱ Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
0:53 Comparison & Christmas
1:53 Comparison & Expectation
2:26 Why Comparison is Good
3:04 Why Comparison Turns Bad
3:41 Status & Relative Wealth
5:33 Where Does This Thinking Lead?
6:34 How Do We Stop Comparison Making Us Miserable
6:55 Avoid Comparison Hangovers
8:17 Set Goals
9:23 Practice Gratitude
10:22 Conclusion

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