Too many people live their lives trying to live up to the expectations others have of them, without truly knowing who they are or what they want for themselves.
When we prioritize ‘approval’ over learning and growth, we take on the wrong objective and this undermines our personal development.
Here are 3 tips to help you detach from your need for validation:
1️⃣ SELF-ACCEPTANCE
Become more accepting of yourself, including your imperfections.
2️⃣ PRACTICE SAYING “NO”
Become comfortable with the idea that not everyone will approve, and that’s ok. Start practicing saying “no” to small requests to build confidence in setting boundaries.
3 PERSONAL PROCESS
Develop a personal process to aid with your decision-making. This can help you justify your decisions (both to yourself and others if required).
Which of the 3 tips resonates most? Let me know in the comments 👇
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