💌 Hey, handsome. Staring at your screen not knowing what to text her next? Let’s fix that.
In this video, I’m giving you 8 golden texting rules, real-life message examples that actually work, 7 mistakes that ruin your chances, and a boost of motivation to get you back in the game.
I'm Olga Vastikova, psychologist, author, and relationship coach. I've helped thousands of men feel more confident, flirt smarter, and finally stop overthinking what to write.
This video is your no-fluff guide to texting a girl in a way that’s funny, flirty, and effective.
📌 Timestamps — Questions you've definitely asked yourself:
00:00 What hurts more: a kick to the balls or childbirth? (And what does that have to do with texting?)
00:48 When should you actually text her — and when is it better not to?
01:06 Why texting while emotional is a really bad idea
01:27 How do you flirt over text without sounding creepy or needy?
01:55 What should you write instead of “Hey, how are you?”
02:22 What kind of compliments really get her attention? (With examples)
02:50 What questions make her actually want to reply?
03:18 Why do you get so serious with the girls you really like?
04:01 What are the texting mistakes that make her lose interest?
04:45 Is “Good morning” every day cute… or just boring?
05:12 How to invite her out without sounding clueless
06:10 What questions are super awkward — and why you should avoid them
06:27 Should you ever ask: “Why aren’t you answering?”
06:43 How do you sound confident, not robotic?
07:02 Who are the real "glow-up" kings — and how do you become one?
💬 Drop a comment below: Which message or rule are you going to try first?
I’m reading. I’m cheering you on.
— Vastikova 💙
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